Comments on: Ivan Flaschner, 1942 – 2008

By: Carol Doty

Carol Doty — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 15:55:16 +0000

Dear Peter:

Not sure why I thought about your Dad today, but I did and thought I would google him. Needless to say, I was shocked to see that your Dad passed away in September. I worked for your Dad when he first started his law practice at Bloor and Spadina (1974) and then later at Kipling Medical Labs. Your Dad was a great Boss and a great friend. Although we didn’t keep in touch over the years, I have always had very fond memories of the time I worked with your Dad.

My deepest condolences to you, Judy and your family.

By: Donald Teel

Donald Teel — Sat, 20 Sep 2008 13:50:46 +0000

Peter, first my heartfelt support, love and prayers. The post helps us all remember the values we were taught and the support we received from our own parents. So, know this, your dad, who I did not know at all, has touched me, thousands of miles away…and, so have you! Your friend, Donald

By: bobbi and harry horwich

bobbi and harry horwich — Thu, 18 Sep 2008 14:37:19 +0000

we are so saddened by Ivan’s being called far, far too early. We love Judy and you “boys” and the grandkids so much we simply can’t express the depth of our sadness and sympathy Please carry on the way you know Ivan and Judy would wish

By: Carolyn Horwich

Carolyn Horwich — Thu, 18 Sep 2008 13:48:06 +0000

Peter and family,
Thank you so much for sharing this remarkable eulogy about a remarkable man with a remarkable family. Although we rarely see the Torontonians, we Floridians keep up with you guys through Phyllis and Harrianne. We share your shock and you sorrow, and at the same time, feel truly fortunate to be part of such a wonderful family.

By: Peter Flaschner

Peter Flaschner — Tue, 16 Sep 2008 03:11:33 +0000

Thanks everyone. Your support here, on twitter, via email and by phone has been truly heartfelt. I’m honoured to know so many truly kind souls.

We’re all alternating between hurting very badly and feeling nothing at all. Shock is a useful mechanism. I’ve never been so completely drained.

And still, there’s the warmth of sharing good memories, of connecting with people we haven’t seen in years, and seeing just how much my dad was loved…

I’m going to be utterly comatose for a day or so.

By: Don & Agi Isenberg

Don & Agi Isenberg — Mon, 15 Sep 2008 14:00:07 +0000

We were so fortunate to spend a truly great weekend with Ivan & Judy during their September 5th -7th visit to NY.

We did so many memorable things in the short,busy weekend, but mostly enjoyed seeing one another again, and spending time together.
Although we didn’t see each other nearly enough over the last 40+ years, every time we were together, it was as if we were never apart.

Your eulogy is a fine tribute to a remarkable man!

He will always be in our hearts!

By: Jesse C.

Jesse C. — Sun, 14 Sep 2008 10:10:40 +0000

Thanks so much for sharing this, Peter. It puts such meaning into a time that must be very tough for you and your family, and then reminds the rest of us to hug ours a little tighter and remember those we miss in our own lives.

Carol, Liam and I will all be keeping a good thought for all of your family. Your father has been remembered well — and leaves the most important legacy: your family’s strength and love.

By: Mark Engels

Mark Engels — Sun, 14 Sep 2008 01:05:08 +0000

Highland scotch. The incredible pleasure your father brought to the table as he presented me with my first taste of this liquor was symbolic of that passion that I had the greatest pleasure of sampling firsthand from your father. His genuine caring, warmth and generosity will always stand as a benchmark for me.

We should all be remembered this way…

Beautiful eulogy, Peter.

By: Vicki Stein

Vicki Stein — Sat, 13 Sep 2008 22:42:24 +0000

We heard about your father this morning……we are so so sorry and our thoughts are with you and your family….you have written a beautiful tribute to him….take care…..

By: Susie Gardner

Susie Gardner — Sat, 13 Sep 2008 18:48:41 +0000

peter, what a wonderful tribute. i’m so sad for you and all your family that it was necessary.